A winter respite

Last week, mother nature granted us a brief respite; spring-type weather in the midst of February. A reminder that warmer temperatures will return (despite indications otherwise, including ten million inches of snow, and my utter exhaustion with the whole production. Perfect timing, anyways; I was running short on new Gabba episodes).

Around here, it was welcomed enthusiastically. With walks, and, most notably, a visit to the park. We hadn’t been to the playground in months, and Peanut certainly missed it. It’s incredible how she’s changed in that time, with an increased sense of confidence on the swings and climbing equipment. She’s almost two, after all; a big girl who can handle so much.

By the end of our visit, she was wet, filthy, exhausted. But fulfilled. And that was just perfect. Because in Peanut’s life, mucky knees are the new black.

A lingerie metamorphosis…#iheartlpc

Over the last 22 months, the state of my underwear drawer has become increasingly dire. I’ve tended to go for whatever’s a) comfortable, b) neutral, or c) inexpensive. I came out of the whole birth experience bloated like a tick. It was probably the least sexy moment of my life. And although Peanut couldn’t have been more worth it, at that very moment, my lingerie situation took a nose dive. I left the hospital in full bottom briefs, and entered the world of rotating granny panties. Well, maybe not that bad; but the days of looking good “underneath it all” were over. Decidedly done.

At least I thought.

Last Thursday, I had the pleasure of attending the #iheartlpc Valentine’s Day event. Hosted by the fabulous Glamamom, it was an opportunity for New York bloggers to gather at La Petit Coquette {The Little Flirt}, and browse some of the newest trends in lingerie.

It was an incredible time. I socialized. I was fitted for a bra (and learned I’ve been wearing the wrong size for, um, ever). I made some purchases. And remembered what it’s like to feel amazing – right down to my skivvies. Seriously, girls. It’s not about what people see; it’s not about your husband; it’s about you. Good lingerie makes you feel good. A simple equation that’s so easy to forget. Especially when you’re a mom.

Now’s the time to rediscover the feminine in your underthings! La Petite Coquette is offering a 15% discount off online purchase for The Stroller Ballet readers until February 13th. Enter code ILUVLPC at checkout.

Your inner glamour will thank you. Mine did.

A special thank you to the sponsors of this event: La Petite Coquette (for their fabulous lingerie), Knockout Cosmetics (for their on-trend nail polished), and Lia Sophia jewelry (for their absolutely beautiful necklaces, bracelets, and earrings).

Photos via Glamamom

New York City Snow, Part 2

I figured it was about time to post the obligatory snow photos. For all parents (at least those living in the Northern Hemisphere) this seems to be a critical rite of passage. Like documenting “trick or treating”, or a visit to the Apple Orchard: it’s just what you do. That’s probably why I felt a little bit guilty after our last storm: Peanut barely ventured outdoors. Particularly when a number of “toddler in snow” albums began popping up on Facebook. So, this morning was “the day”. Lest Peanut ultimately end up in therapy due to “snow photo deprivation”.

Luckily, New York City is getting dumped on this season. I’ve spent most of my life in the Northeast, and don’t ever recall this type of a winter (although pregnancy and motherhood did a number on my memory, so don’t hold me to it). In any case, Peanut absolutely loved the snow. Having spent my early years in Canada, I fondly remember being a kid in winter. So I was thrilled to see her enjoying the simple pleasures of childhood.

A word on fall and the yard work that accompanies this season

Somehow, in a wink, fall arrived. Correction – late fall arrived. Confirmed by the massive pile of leaves on my front stoop. Although I grew up in a house, for most of my adult life I’ve lived in an apartment. In coming to New York, we decided to rent an attached house. For a change, and, quite frankly, because we needed more space. Or at least we wanted more space. Because who really needs anything. Besides food and water, and of course, wine.

Although we don’t have a back yard, we do have a small patch of grass up front. It provides a little bit of curb appeal, if you will. What I didn’t account for was the amount of maintenance this postage stamp would require. Tuesday evening I slaved (note the emphasis) over a pile of leaves that had collected on our stoop (I’m not one for yard work). It took about 45 minutes to clear. Afterwards, I surveyed my work, quite pleased with myself. The front of my home looked lovely. I felt like the upstanding tenant I aspire to be. I may have even thought, “heck, I can handle this.”

A mere two days later, the leaves have returned. With a vengeance, I may add.

Today we were leaving the house, and Peanut paused by the pile. She reached out her little hand to grasp the scraggliest leaf of the bunch. Gripping the stem, she smiled at it with a look of wonder.

To her, it was a pile of magic.

And all of a sudden, I was thankful.

Our day at the New York City Marathon

Once again, it’s Sunday night (funny, comes around each week). And I simply can’t go to bed without sharing my experiences at the New York City Marathon. My Brooklyn-based sister and I headed into Manhattan with Peanut this morning, because neither of us had ever attended.

And it was absolutely amazing.

I actually wasn’t prepared for how awe-inspiring the whole experience would be. It’s incredible how an athletic event can bring together so many ethnicities and nationalities. There were people of all ages participating. Of both sexes. There were members of the NYPD. There was a group of professional wheelers (athletes in wheelchairs). I even saw a guy wearing the French flag, and carrying a baguette (obviously). Some were running for a charity or cause. Some were running for a loved one. Some were running for a country. In the end, they were all completing the most physically demanding event of their lives. As a collective community, you might say.

We were able to find a spot near the last leg of the course, with open space for viewing. I have absolutely no training in distance running, but felt almost motivated to jump right in there and finish the final few miles with everyone. Or at the very least purchase a B.O.B and begin my preparation for next year’s race, immediately (my husband thinks I’ve completely lost it, by the way). That’s just how all-encompassing the energy was. There was a blanket of camaraderie, of cooperation over The City today. It made you feel like anything is possible. Anything.

On another note, I finally took the plunge and harnessed Peanut. Which was probably the best decision I’ve made all month (besides purchasing that giant bag of salt and vinegar Pop Chips on Friday, of course). She loved the leash. More importantly, I loved the leash. At times I did feel like I was pulling a dog. But in this magical city where one regularly sees people screaming to themselves while digging through trash cans, a leashed child seems relatively benign.

Comparatively.

Happy Sunday, all.

A New York Halloween

It’s late, but I couldn’t go to bed without sharing some pictures of our Halloween with you. It’s kind of interesting, but all of my pictures (below) are taken in what is technically considered “New York City”. In fact, our local subway stop is a mere three blocks away from where we trick or treated. You may wonder, how can that be? Well, New York City is huge and extremely diverse in terms of what you can find. And although Manhattan is amazing, there is still a lot to New York beyond Manhattan.

So. Besides visiting the Queens Farm and trick or treating in our neighborhood, I spent quite a lot of time hiding in the kitchen and eating candy, whilst praying Peanut wouldn’t notice and want some for herself (trying to avoid that ubiquitous mommy guilt round here, or at least as much as possible). I hope you all had a safe and happy day, averted any major temper tantrums, and have settled comfortably into a sugar coma. How did you celebrate your day?

xo

The Queens County Farm. Can you believe this is New York City?

Cows and pig and sheep, oh my!

Sheep and pigs and cows, oh my!

Peanut loved these bunnies

Trick or Treating in our neighborhood

Halloween is quite the production

Halloween is quite the production

A small giraffe and daddy

Peanut and mama

And the night winds down